We have a throwaway culture. When we’ve had enough of using, playing with or trying something, it gets thrown in the discard pile. Even our relationships suffer the same fate.
The concept of faithfulness is hard to understand in this world, except in the areas of academic study, vocation and business, when we know that if we don’t work hard and apply ourselves we will fail. However, we don’t want to work hard all the time!!! Some things are supposed to be easy. Love should be easy, we reason!
There are many movies about meeting and finding the right person, falling in love and getting married. We all assume that the story goes uphill from there. That the hard part of ‘finding love’ is over. Few depict the realities of staying ‘in love’ or working at marriage.
It is commonly concluded that “if I have to try to love you, then I don’t love you”. I’ll call it quits and find someone who is easy to love, and who I feel like loving all the time!!! That’s cool, except one might find that that new love will have a hard time loving the choosy lover! Would you be happy if…