“Pls ma. I was raped twice and i think this is affecting my self esteem. So now d thing is that i met a guy i so much loved but he want to have sex with me but i said no to him and he kept asking me if am a virgin since am not y saying no. I don’t know what to do d emotion is so tick that i cant let go. I prayed to God to take d feelings away by bringing someone else. Now d feelings is dying and another guy is staring at me to death. I dont know what to do becus am fallin for this new guy but he don’t say anytin to me. I just want to be normal as i used to be but its not working. Anytime i saw him my heart skip n if i don’t see him i will be looking out for him. What should i do ma?”
I’m so sorry to read about your situation and to learn that you were raped twice. Are the incidents of rape recent? Also do you mind if I ask how old you are?