Dear Ufuomaee, The other day I came with a burden about my fiance whether to accept his proposal. Anyway I did and we had our introduction last year December. He came for the list and since the day he collected the list he changed completely. He started complaining […]
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Dear Ufuomaee, good morning. I’m an ardent reader of your write up on Lagos and naked convo. God bless you for the good works. Amen. I’m a young academic. I was not in a relationship for five years. why? university sweetheart broke my heart and got married. and […]
This conversation has been shared with permission from the Reader. I have tried to simplify our correspondence as much as possible, as it was a rather lengthy chat as I tried to get to the crux of the matter. I hope you are blessed as you read. Feel […]
Dear Ufuomaee, hello ma. can a Christian lady marry a Muslim brother, who by all standard is good,by that I mean he is morally responsible n disciplined. though he promised to convert to a Christian because i told him that’s the only reason I will marry him, but […]
Erhuvwun was hungry, but chose to fast that day, especially as Amadi was compelling her to go with him to the idol shrine. When she’d turned down her food, Amadi had not been phased. Rather he put her to some hard work, so that she would be tired and hungry. Erhuvwun […]
“Dear Ufuomaee, I have a friend I really want to settle down with but he is a Catholic and I’m a Pentecostal. What can I do in this case, cos I don’t know if my parents will accept a Catholic.” Dear Reader, I am quite stuck on how to […]
Dear Ufuomaee, I have a question ma. If God has spoken to an individual concerning his/her choice and this person approached his/her spiritual father/mentor or guardian and this spiritual father gives a contrary opinion. Is it ideal to follow the advise of that spiritual father? To clarify, what if […]
“Dear Ufuomaee, Pls having a dream that your wedding gown is not fitting in i. e not my size is that a sign of letting go of the relationship.” Dear Reader, Dreams can mean many things or nothing at all. Sometimes, it is our own anxieties that plague […]
Dear Ufuomaee, Hi I’m really confused here as to what to do.. I hav a bf who i’v been dating for like a year plus nw…I love him bt I dnt knw if I want to marry him. I met another guy recently who i’v fallen in love […]
Dear Ufuomaee, “hello ma, this has been bothering me for sometimes now. It is kinda complicated. without making much fuss! I want to know if i really need to start a relationship on the basis of love,or I just needed to push n love will grow over time. […]
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“Good evening ma. I’ve read some of your write ups on LC. I must confess they are very good & helpful. Without much ado, I have a question to ask. I’m not in any “boyfriend – girlfriend” relationship because I don’t want to be for now but I […]
The following correspondence happened via WhatsApp, over a couple of days, and there was some back and forth to ascertain what the real issue was. The conversation has been shared with permission by the lady concerned. Good evening Ufuomaee. I’ve a problem and I really need a matured […]
Amadi could hear the sound of singing, which indicated that Erhuvwun was almost home. But what had taken her so long? Didn’t she know that he needed her in the morning? Or was she taking advantage of the new liberty he had given her by disrespecting him? Rather […]
What follows is a transcript of a chat with one of my readers. We started addressing the issue in question, but it turned out that the real issue was more pertinent, and I think you will be blessed to read. She has given me permission to share. Thanks […]
Dear Ufuomaee, Greeting’s ma, I have been following your blogs in two years now and you have really been of a great blessing to me ma but I need an advice. I will be 20yrs this year and I am a 400lv student of Uniben. I started out in […]