Unrealistic expectations in marriage have been called the “Silent Marriage Killer”. This dishonourable title is actually well earned, because our expectations pave the way for disappointment, bitterness and resentment, which steal our joy from enjoying whatever is good in our marriage. So it is important that as we […]
Hey y’all. Happy weekend! This is my first blog post spotlight in a long time. I got caught up in the Author life and left the Bloggers life for a while. I’ve felt the need and the push to come back and interact with my family on WordPress […]
I saw a post the other day that presented the argument that homosexuality is not the only sin that God condemns, and if Christians can be divorced, remarried and still go to Church, why can’t they be gay and still go to Church? There are a number of […]
Hey y’all… As I am writing this, it’s 3:53am, the morning after binge watching the first four episodes of the new TV series “God Friended Me”. I got a burden about the time I was going to bed to write about this series on The Spotlight, but I […]
Even without religion, God is. There’s something I’ve been meditating on, trying to get an understanding and revelation about. The process of our growth in God, how we come into a relationship with Him, how we mature or grow through that relationship, whether or not it’s defined, and […]
You said you loved me but you lied. This is not how someone treats the one they cherish… Words don’t mean nothing when actions contradict. Love is really very simple, even a child knows it. It’s in the way that you smile… And the look in your eyes. […]
In this world where the wise thing to do in an abusive relationship is to walk away, to protect and look after yourself and your sanity, I feel conflicted about the Wisdom of the Cross that caused Jesus to endure unfair punishment, torture, insults and mocking, to redeem […]
Hey, y’all!!! Happy Weekend 🙂 I hope you are enjoying yourselves. I know I am. As you are reading this, I am at Aimee’s Library’s “A Book In Hand Live” Beach Hangout, talking about my book, Perfect Love and meeting some awesome people too. If you haven’t read it […]
I’m not okay. I’m not okay with the way of the world. I’m not okay that we don’t agree. I’m not okay that everything costs money. I’m not okay that so many have to do without. It seems these days everyone’s out for number one. Nobody seems to […]
I have been passionate for God since I was a child, and have been influenced by stories of Abraham, Moses and Samuel who heard God speak to them and call them out specially. I didn’t think God was going to call me like that, but I wanted to […]
Hey, hey… Happy Weekend! This episode of The Spotlight is coming in late in the day, but for good reason. I just launched a new website for my books this week, and I’ve been consumed with it over the last couple of days. I just had to post […]
In May 2016, I wrote Discipline and Christianity, and republished it on The Naked Convos in June that year. The feedback was great, and I remember one of the readers asking me to write about the disciplines in Christianity. I accepted the challenge, but never got around to […]
Alicia took another look at the printed results in her hands and blinked severally. She gulped through a lump that was forming in her throat. She couldn’t believe what she was seeing. The results actually said “Positive!” Jesus! I am HIV Positive! Jesus! Her thoughts immediately shifted to […]
Hey hey! I’m taking The Spotlight to a whole new level!!! Today, I’m doing my first ever interview of an Author, which will be part of the #UfuomaeeInterviews series, under my Book Reviews category. Every now and then, I will interview a special author or publisher that I really like to talk about some […]
Hi y’all! Welcome to another episode of The Spotlight. I’ve got another interesting post I’d like to spotlight today, and it deals with racism. I really have to give kudos to this writer because what he wrote was deep, honest and paradigm changing. It required a rare kind […]
