Unrealistic expectations in marriage have been called the “Silent Marriage Killer”. This dishonourable title is actually well earned, because our expectations pave the way for disappointment, bitterness and resentment, which steal our joy from enjoying whatever is good in our marriage. So it is important that as we […]
I saw a post the other day that presented the argument that homosexuality is not the only sin that God condemns, and if Christians can be divorced, remarried and still go to Church, why can’t they be gay and still go to Church? There are a number of […]
You said you loved me but you lied. This is not how someone treats the one they cherish… Words don’t mean nothing when actions contradict. Love is really very simple, even a child knows it. It’s in the way that you smile… And the look in your eyes. […]
In this world where the wise thing to do in an abusive relationship is to walk away, to protect and look after yourself and your sanity, I feel conflicted about the Wisdom of the Cross that caused Jesus to endure unfair punishment, torture, insults and mocking, to redeem […]
Alicia took another look at the printed results in her hands and blinked severally. She gulped through a lump that was forming in her throat. She couldn’t believe what she was seeing. The results actually said “Positive!” Jesus! I am HIV Positive! Jesus! Her thoughts immediately shifted to […]
Hey hey! I’m taking The Spotlight to a whole new level!!! Today, I’m doing my first ever interview of an Author, which will be part of the #UfuomaeeInterviews series, under my Book Reviews category. Every now and then, I will interview a special author or publisher that I really like to talk about some […]
Have you ever wondered why someone who has it all; fame and fortune and even a family that loves them, would take their own lives? Have you ever wondered how you can have so many friends and fans and yet feel so alone, that you have no one […]
Happy Weekend, y’all. I hope it’s going well. I really do. It’s been a sad week for many of us, with constant news reports about people who we feel had it going for them suddenly giving up and taking their own lives… It makes you wonder, how bad […]
1. I hate that I can’t make you do anything. No matter how often I ask you or beg you. You do exactly what you want, when you want and how you want. 2. I hate that you often follow the crowd. Whatever is trending is what you […]
I didn’t say it… Remember, this is The Spotlight, so somebody said it! And mehn, am I pissed?! Now, don’t get mad at my author either, she didn’t say it. But she brought it to my attention, through the post I am spotlighting on my blog today. Her […]
