Category: Sex and Sexuality

Are You Offended?

I offer no translations, no concessions and no explanations.  Read these words from Paul, just as they are.  Take them as his understanding if you like, but know that he was appointed by Jesus to teach the Gospel…and his ministry was particularly for the Gentiles.  If sexual morality […]

The Wisdom of Grace and Truth

The Law of the Lord is flawless; The Sabbath shall be hallowed as holy. The marriage bed is sacred and covenant inviolable; But Wisdom is the principle thing. In all things, may God be glorified… Grace and Truth has revealed to us That the Sabbath was made for […]

Make It Stink!

Lord, I know no one is above temptation. It knocks at the door of every heart… Oft times it is disguised as something desirable; And sometimes, we are just weak… We may be lonely, or emotionally down. In need of a friend to talk to; Someone to love […]

Understanding Emotional Affairs

I recently concluded a two-volume fictional series called An Emotional Affair, to illustrate how easy it is for such a stronghold to take captive a marriage. It was also to illustrate that God is able and willing to deliver us all, and that we must be as gracious […]

What ever happened to love?

Okay, I read this skit this morning, and it’s so real about the way society sees love and romance these days…  It’s the tech-age, after the sexual revolution…  What more can we expect from our greetings cards? It’s not my usual sort of humour, but I wasn’t too […]

Wisdom By Another Name

Today, I’m musing on love.  God’s love more specifically.  After a disagreement I had with another believer, on a post I shared about homosexuality and fornication, where he argued that God’s love is conditional…and said we are not called to show unconditional love, the musings began.  I have written […]

Love and Righteousness

Love and righteousness are so closely related that some people think that they are one and the same.  But one is superior to the other.  Do you know which? If you said love, you are so very right!  Love begets righteousness, righteousness begets justice and so on…  Righteousness […]

Reprobate Minds

“Furthermore, just as they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, so God gave them over to a depraved mind, so that they do what ought not to be done” (Rom 1:28). Do you think that it is possible that someone in this world […]

Reader Questions: Dina on Remarriage

Hi dear readers, I’m starting something new, by striving to answer hard questions on my blog through new posts, as a lot of my content is thought-provoking, and may require further clarity.  I’m starting with a series of questions by Dina on remarriage.  You may post questions as […]

Is Adultery An Unforgivable Sin?

To begin to answer this question, we need to know what adultery is.  Contrary to popular belief, adultery is a consequence of divorce, and not a cause of divorce.  Often, marital unfaithfulness is equated with adultery, when in fact it is simply sexual immorality within marriage, which may […]

Girls Run The World?

As much as I am an idealist, there is one reality that I cannot escape – that this is indeed a man’s world!  I am certain that Beyonce knows this, even though she chooses to sing songs to motivate women to see themselves as leaders, even as she […]

Shame – The Devil’s Sticky Tape

Please note that if you have never sinned in your life, then it’s better you don’t read this post. And the same applies for commenting. Thank you! Everyone else should know what I mean when I talk of shame. Although, some might argue, that you can be made […]

Pursue, Provide and Protect

I usually write for the ladies… Today, I want to write for the gents. I usually write from personal experience, but today, I’m writing from an understanding of a husband’s duty to his wife and family. We owe it to feminism for the blurred roles in the family. […]