“If this is the situation between a husband and his wife, it is better not to marry…” (Matthew 19:10). At this time, more than ever, people are discouraged about marriage, and those who have desired it and not yet entered in are now afraid. They are disheartened and […]
I’ve been looking through my journals lately, and reflecting on my writings from when I was single… One thing I desired most of all was acceptance and companionship. I realise that it was very important for me to find that in a mate, because it isn’t really about […]
Hey, did I get your attention with that title? It grabbed my attention too. It is written by a lady who I love to read from. She has a really sharp mind, and I love the way she tackles issues, only that, we usually end up on opposite […]
Introduction Over the last few weeks, I’ve been meditating on Paul’s teaching and God’s commandments concerning marriage. As one seeking answers, and also seeking to minister to others like myself who have pondered on this great topic, I desired to know God’s will on the matter. Over 40 […]
“Dear Ufuomaee, I have a friend I really want to settle down with but he is a Catholic and I’m a Pentecostal. What can I do in this case, cos I don’t know if my parents will accept a Catholic.” Dear Reader, I am quite stuck on how to […]
“Dear Ufuomaee, Pls having a dream that your wedding gown is not fitting in i. e not my size is that a sign of letting go of the relationship.” Dear Reader, Dreams can mean many things or nothing at all. Sometimes, it is our own anxieties that plague […]
A while back, someone asked me this question, while reading one of my story series. I said I would probably respond via my Reader Questions series…and I feel it’s high time I oblige. It’s not an easy question to answer. It is very exposing, and it is also […]
Hi Dear Readers, I hope you enjoyed the three posts I shared with you last week! If you missed them, you can click on the category The Spotlight, to read them all. This week’s posts deal with the delays, disappointments and dilemmas we face in life. When things don’t […]
Hi Dear Readers, I hope you enjoyed the three posts I shared with you last week! If you missed them, you can click on the category The Spotlight, to read them all. This week’s posts deal with our favourite topic, love, sex and relationships. We are looking at the […]
Earlier this year, I spotlighted a post by Simi, titled “Stop Praying For Singles To Get Married!!!” Today’s post is by a close friend of mine who is relatively new to blogging. She goes by the name Chioma Oparadike, and blogs at http://www.chiomaoparadike.com. Her tagline is “Inspiration for today’s […]
Hi y’all! The Spotlight is back with a difference! I have really appreciated the break, and I needed it. I could do with more rest, but sooner or later, I have to get back to what I love to do and trust God to bless my perseverance. I […]
The other day, someone marveled at me, and asked how I come up with all my different posts…that looking at me, they would never have thought I had such knowledge. My answer to him, was also a lesson to myself, and I thought I would share it on […]
Earlier this year, I spotlighted a post by Simi, titled “Stop Praying For Singles To Get Married!!!” Today’s post is by a close friend of mine who is relatively new to blogging. She goes by the name Chioma Oparadike, and blogs at http://www.chiomaoparadike.com. Her tagline is “Inspiration for today’s […]
A while back, someone asked me this question, while reading one of my story series. I said I would probably respond via my Reader Questions series…and I feel it’s high time I oblige. It’s not an easy question to answer. It is very exposing, and it is also […]
Hey, did I get your attention with that title? It grabbed my attention too. It is written by a lady who I love to read from. She has a really sharp mind, and I love the way she tackles issues, only that, we usually end up on opposite […]
Grace and Truth 