Okay, be honest… I’m sure I am not the only one! You don’t even have to be female to wonder along these lines. Paul is a phenomenal person, whose mark on Christianity is second to none – except Christ of course, whose name we all bear! Yes, Paul’s […]
I just shared a comment on this post I read on The Naked Convos. I really connected with the writer’s perspective, and I think many single ladies have felt or feel the same way. I hope my comment will help you to exercise some wisdom in this matter. […]
Marriage is a holy vocation, where two people attempt the greatest feat against natural odds together…living in love and agreement until death separates them. When we romanticise marriage, we diminish the obstacles against its success in our minds, while not acknowledging and addressing them in reality. We set ourselves […]
“Pls ma. I was raped twice and i think this is affecting my self esteem. So now d thing is that i met a guy i so much loved but he want to have sex with me but i said no to him and he kept asking me […]
“Good afternoon, thanks for replying. Saw ur post “he is not psychopathic, he just doesn’t love you”. I experienced such few years ago but i thank God i was able to stand and work out of the relationship though it wasn’t easy at all… However the situation of […]
More than a week ago, I shared my counsel with a lady who was in love with a man, who had told her that he couldn’t move forward with the relationship if kissing was off the table. My counsel to her, based on my understanding, was that I […]
“Dear Ufuomaee, Good day ma, ur blog blesses and inspires me so much, may God bless u. Please I need advice. I haven’t dated in such a while cos i didnt want to rush it like i rushed my first one. Then this dude comes along and in […]
“Dear Ufuomaee, I need your advice on this issue ma. Last year my husband made a mistake and got a lady pregnant, he begged me and promise to quit the relationship as soon as the lady born the baby, which I agree. But the lady has born the baby […]
What follows is a transcript of a private chat I had with a hurting woman, who approached me for counsel on her marital problems. The issues were so diverse, that I couldn’t select the particular one to focus on for today’s Reader Questions, so I copied the correspondence, […]
My two year old boy is learning new words everyday. I’ve been teaching him to say “please” and “thank you” and “good morning”…and yes, we’ve also practiced “sorry”. He struggles immensely with that one. It is quite mind-blowing. How does he know that he doesn’t mean it…and so […]
“Dear Ufuomaee, I have a friend I really want to settle down with but he is a Catholic and I’m a Pentecostal. What can I do in this case, cos I don’t know if my parents will accept a Catholic.” Dear Reader, I am quite stuck on how to […]
“Dear Ufuomaee, Pls having a dream that your wedding gown is not fitting in i. e not my size is that a sign of letting go of the relationship.” Dear Reader, Dreams can mean many things or nothing at all. Sometimes, it is our own anxieties that plague […]
Perhaps you are like Victoria (name has been changed), and you feel that you are in a loveless marriage. I hope this advice I gave to her will help you to fight for your marriage, and trust God to make a way, where there seems no way. ********** Dear […]
Ekem had this question to ask in response to my post: He’s not psychopathic, he just doesn’t love you. The article was re-published on Lagos Convo, where she made her comment: “What if this happens in marriage, what should the lady do?” I think my response will help […]
I recently concluded a two-volume fictional series called An Emotional Affair, to illustrate how easy it is for such a stronghold to take captive a marriage. It was also to illustrate that God is able and willing to deliver us all, and that we must be as gracious […]
Grace and Truth 