Tag: mental health

The Celebrity Syndrome

Have you ever wondered why someone who has it all; fame and fortune and even a family that loves them, would take their own lives?  Have you ever wondered how you can have so many friends and fans and yet feel so alone, that you have no one […]

The House Girl – Part Six

Chinwe Ebuka was shocked when she opened her Abuja apartment door at 9:30pm that Monday night to find her niece standing there, unkempt.  She opened the door wider to let her in, her thoughts racing as she wondered what could have happened to her. “What happened to you, […]

The House Girl – Part Five

August 2003.  Garki District, Abuja. Osinachi took Monday off to interview a few nannies.  Her friends had given her the names of some reputable agencies in Abuja, and she’d contacted them all on Saturday.  She was expecting six women to show up for interviews today.  She had specified […]

The House Girl – Part Four

“Osinachi, what’s the matter with you?!” “Donald, I did it for us!” “NO!  No!  You did this for yourself!  How could you plan this without me?” “It wasn’t like that, Baby…” “Don’t!  Don’t Baby me…  I don’t even know who you are anymore.  God!  All these secrets and […]

The House Girl – Part Three

It had been a long night for Osinachi.  She’d arrived in Lagos around 8pm and had headed straight to the hospital.  Her sister had given her the details for the room they had booked, and she was shown the way at the lobby to the Maternity Ward. Daluchi […]

The House Girl – Part Two

Chinyere was singing as she scrubbed the bathroom tub.  She was so happy because, earlier that week, her lesson teacher had informed her that she’d passed the mock exams he had given her the previous week, and she would be able to enter direct to SS1 with the […]

The House Girl – Part One

March, 2003.  Garki District, Abuja. “Chinyere!  Chinyere!” Madam’s shrill voice sounded in the air, causing the house girl to raise her head slowly and rise up from her task of washing Madam’s lace wrappers and beaded blouses, which she always demanded were hand-washed with her special soap.  She […]

I Still Shake!

Trauma.  How can one define it?  It is like a poison that corrupts the soul.  It seeps deep into the mind and binds itself to the person who has suffered a traumatic experience. You do not always know when trauma is taking hold.  In order to cope, your […]

The Prison In Your Head

I suffer from a most common ailment known to man…the inability to escape my head, ignore my heart nor outrun my body.  I am limited by my own perceptions of the world, constructed by my personal experiences, defined by my beliefs.  Being spiritual has not yet delivered me […]