“Dear Ufuomaee, Good day ma, ur blog blesses and inspires me so much, may God bless u. Please I need advice. I haven’t dated in such a while cos i didnt want to rush it like i rushed my first one. Then this dude comes along and in […]
“Dear Ufuomaee, I have a friend I really want to settle down with but he is a Catholic and I’m a Pentecostal. What can I do in this case, cos I don’t know if my parents will accept a Catholic.” Dear Reader, I am quite stuck on how to […]
“Dear Ufuomaee, Pls having a dream that your wedding gown is not fitting in i. e not my size is that a sign of letting go of the relationship.” Dear Reader, Dreams can mean many things or nothing at all. Sometimes, it is our own anxieties that plague […]
I was contemplating one night about love, and it dawned on me how similar it is to cake. Cakes comes in different forms and sizes, but always leave you feeling good…sometimes wanting more…other times content. The comparison stuck when I was feeling like I had run out of […]
Hey you! Yes you. You want to be rich? Cutting corners and scheming in search of fast riches? Labouring all your life to save for retirement that may or may not come? You’re thinking too small. Think BIG! Think true wealth. Do not store up for yourself treasures […]
I did something different last week. I started to write a story on my blog, called The Church Girl. It was just supposed to be one of those single post short stories with a fantastic lesson at the end. But turned out to be a seven part series […]
Yesterday, I watched two interesting films, that combined to leave a lasting impression on me. They were secular films, but had such great lessons. The first was “Everyone says I love you“, an old (1996) musical comedy with an all-star cast that included Julia Roberts, Drew Barrymore and […]
You must have been awesome. Of all the men I’ve ever known, It was you I gave my heart to… Now my heart is the most precious Of all the things I own. It means a lot that I gave it to you… You must have been awesome. […]
Do you remember that catchy song from the 80s by Surface that goes “only you can make me happy”? It was one of my favourite songs at the time, and summed up my perspective on love, or better yet – romance. The claim is that you can’t be […]
Lover, you may have me I hold nothing from you, But the portion of my heart Which is the Lord’s – My First Love. And my spirit and soul Which are in His hands. My mind and will are mine To choose to love you everyday To walk […]
At some point in your life, when you realise that time is passing you by, and you are yet to meet the one you’d like to share your life with, you might start to wonder what has gone wrong… I mean, isn’t there someone for everyone? And if […]
Ladies, ever had one of those relationships where you seem to be going crazy trying to figure him out? He says he loves you, but things just don’t add up in the way that he treats you. You might wonder if he actually hears you when you speak, […]