I left my hour session with the counselor knowing I wouldn’t be going back. It seemed her counsel hinged on me believing in Jesus, and well…it just didn’t make that much sense to me. It felt good to talk it out, and get all that emotion off my chest, but […]
Dear Ufuomaee, Good morning ma, hope you’re good. Please I would like to ask you a question. I met a guy during my service year who I was just plainly friends with. Along the line, I discovered I had developed feelings for him. Somewhere along sha, I told […]
On the Day of Judgement, when the Son of Man separates His sheep from the goats, there will be a TEST! It is not a test that we will write or sit, it is a test that He will perform, to distinguish one from the other. And those who are among the sheep shall be saved, and those who are among the goats shall be condemned (Matt 25:31-46).
“Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven” (Matt 7:21).
It was after saying this that the Lord said: “Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity”…
Dear Ufuomaee Good afternoon ma’am. I am sharing this with you because I know you’re a minister and a matured woman. I am 21 and I will be 22 in November but my breasts are not grown like a matured lady of my age. I started having protruding […]
What is Jesus saying here? Is He making a distinction between Himself and God, the Father? And if so, what type of distinction? I think the difference Jesus is highlighting is relationship and understanding of God. The Jews have believed in God, but they have not all known […]
The road to divorce was long and hard. I must have died a thousand deaths along the way. The first time was when he confessed to me what he had done. In tears, he told me his horrible secret and broke my heart. He destroyed my trust and […]
This question was asked in response to my post, “God Told Me You Are Not The One“. I responded that it would be a good post to tackle for the Reader Questions series, which is what I am trying to do today. By the way, if you do […]
This account is a summary of an audio message from a Reader. Dear Ufuomaee I am a 300 level student, who has never been in love. I have had brief crushes, but nothing serious. I am a leader in my Campus fellowship, and I recently discovered that I […]
Since I started writing my story series, I’ve come across women going through so many challenges in their lives, and especially in their marriages. It has inspired me to write and to keep writing about marriage, and how to be stedfast in it, and how to work to […]
The hall was gloriously decorated with colourful, sweet-smelling flowers and alight with spotlighting and grandiose chandeliers. Gold and purple drapes and ribbons were beautifully spread around the grand space, and lined the ivory chiavari chairs according to the royal theme the Bride had chosen. It was to be the […]
I remember the day I met Kevin, like it was yesterday. Something about him was so paralysing, I couldn’t help but stare! Yes, he was gorgeous, but more than that, he oozed charisma. He smiled at me, as he noticed my intense gaze, and I gasped. He took […]
I have modified this Reader’s account, because it was very detailed, but her main points are still captured. Dear Ufuomaee I am a 28yr old a graduate waiting for service,i mean Nysc. A single mum bt still living with my parent due to their love for me nd […]
You’re welcome to another thought-provoking episode of The Spotlight!!! I hope you enjoyed last week’s topic, which was about co-habitation before marriage, the pros and cons, and why we ought to submit to the wisdom of God. The topic today is really HOT!!! But there’s no avoiding it, […]
Dear Ufuomaee, hello ma. can a Christian lady marry a Muslim brother, who by all standard is good,by that I mean he is morally responsible n disciplined. though he promised to convert to a Christian because i told him that’s the only reason I will marry him, but […]
Dear Ufuomaee, “hello ma, this has been bothering me for sometimes now. It is kinda complicated. without making much fuss! I want to know if i really need to start a relationship on the basis of love,or I just needed to push n love will grow over time. […]
Grace and Truth 