This is the last abuse… And it is an abuse of scripture! Do not fall for it. The people who quote this to tell a woman to abide in an abusive marriage have not read the scripture and do not understand its context. This is what is written: […]
It is very tempting to compare your marriage with that of other people you know or may not even know. They may be your own friends or family, or celebrities or influencers you follow on social media. Comparison is dangerous because it can make you feel miserable in […]
Hi guys, how are you doing? It’s been a while… I’m back on The Spotlight with a review of a book I read this week. It is actually a true story, published by a first-time author, Tosin Sanni, titled; “UNCHAINED: My Journey From Broken to Beautified.” It’s a […]
3 The depression stays with her for days. Ochuko continues to study her Bible, but there’s a disconnect. I don’t know how to love You like I love him… Do to Me what you did to love him… The words, spoken in her spirit, are like a light […]
I’m not over it… It’s amazing how something traumatic happens in your life, and you’re just supposed to get over it. Everyone hastens you to keep it moving. Get up, wash up, and keep it moving. I’ve been listening to motivational messages on YouTube lately, and mehn, I’ve […]
I’m of the opinion that it is easier to say sorry when you don’t mean it. For some people, sorry just falls off their lips just as easily as they lie. But as someone who strives to be truthful all the time, I find it hard to apologise […]
One of my readers reached out to me on Instagram and we had a chat about a relationship issue he was having. He permitted me to share on Reader Questions, and I hope that someone else is blessed by this exchange. *** Hi Ufuomaee, I wanted to ask […]
This is an edited conversation I had with one of my readers on WhatsApp and has been shared with permission. *** Hi Ufuomaee, I want to tell you something. I made this friend when I was in Nysc orientation camp. We were the best of friends, though he […]
I am ready for all you’ve got, And I promise not to run away. I want to stand and fight, And endure the bad with the good… I want you to know that I’ve got you, And you’ve got me, no matter what! You’re the one I want […]
Love is tricky business. The advice on falling in love and staying in love seems so contrary. There are so many pitfalls in this, and no matter how hard you try to avoid it, someone always gets hurts. Most are just happy not to be the one who […]
Do you know what is the most common thing in the world? Temptation! Do you know what is the most NORMAL thing in the world? Temptation!!! Temptation is everywhere, no matter the size of the sin, whether it is the temptation to conceal something that should be revealed, […]
It’s the subject we can’t avoid. SEX! It’s the most talked about subject, yet, it is the most embarrassing and most misunderstood. A lot of the embarrassment and misunderstanding is to do with those who feel they are in power or control, communicating false messages to those, who […]
“Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband” (Ephesians 5:33). Do you know what the verse above is saying? Do you know what it is not saying??? Many use this and other […]
I love that quote above so much! It sums up everything I am going to say… But if you have the time and interest, keep reading. We live in a society that seems to value quantity over quality, even though we like to chant “quality over quantity.” Our actions […]
PASSION. What would you be without it? Dead, I suppose. Passion is our drive. We must be passionate about something enough to hope for its fulfilment and keep on living. Passion is not synonymous with love, but with strong emotion. A vocation, such as marriage, calls for passion! […]
Grace and Truth 