Last week, I started on The Marriage ABCs – S for Sex and Sexuality, only to realise that it was a much bigger topic than I once envisioned. So here is Part Two. Please note: If you are having great sex in your marriage, or if you are […]
It’s the subject we can’t avoid. SEX! It’s the most talked about subject, yet, it is the most embarrassing and most misunderstood. A lot of the embarrassment and misunderstanding is to do with those who feel they are in power or control, communicating false messages to those, who […]
“And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed” (Genesis 2:25). When most people think of intimacy, they generally think about sexual intimacy, but intimacy is about much more than sex. There are several ways to be intimate with your spouse, and physical […]
I recently got into a debate with my sister about fornication vs homosexuality. It’s an argument that I’ve had before, and I had in mind to write a post about it, but put it off. Well, today’s passionate discussion rekindled that flame in me. I think this is […]
The pressure is ON to loose your virginity like yesterday!!! Parents who might have otherwise counseled you, forbade you or restricted you from sexual involvement before marriage, are now encouraging you to use protection because they have given in to the belief that YOU WILL DO IT ANYWAY, […]
“Dear Ufuomaee, Good day ma, ur blog blesses and inspires me so much, may God bless u. Please I need advice. I haven’t dated in such a while cos i didnt want to rush it like i rushed my first one. Then this dude comes along and in […]
Somewhere in the world, there’s a forty year old man sleeping with a 17 year old girl. Are you concerned? What if I told you that he has been sleeping with her for the past 3 years? Are you now concerned? What if I said that she’s in […]
I was asked this question by a reader, in response to my post Ufuomaee’s Seven Reasons To Wait, which was recently posted on The Naked Convos. I think my response might help others wondering the same thing. “Interesting write up.Some quick questions though… -Is this article addressed to […]
Dear Ufuomaee Hi ma,i just met dis guy on facebook he claims 2 luv me but he z very sexually active i told him i cant av sex outsyd marriage but he wudun av dat.i told him my fears and reasons and even told him my past but […]
Dear Ufuomaee, Hi I’m really confused here as to what to do.. I hav a bf who i’v been dating for like a year plus nw…I love him bt I dnt knw if I want to marry him. I met another guy recently who i’v fallen in love […]
Dear Ufuomaee, Greeting’s ma, I have been following your blogs in two years now and you have really been of a great blessing to me ma but I need an advice. I will be 20yrs this year and I am a 400lv student of Uniben. I started out in […]
Lola was home alone again. It was 10pm at night and Bolu was not yet back from work. The food she had prepared for dinner at 8 O’Clock was well and truly cold by now. At nine, she’d given up the wait, and decided to have her dinner […]
I have modified this Reader’s account, because it was very detailed, but her main points are still captured. Dear Ufuomaee I am a 28yr old a graduate waiting for service,i mean Nysc. A single mum bt still living with my parent due to their love for me nd […]
Alicia took another look at the printed results in her hands and blinked severally. She gulped through a lump that was forming in her throat. She couldn’t believe what she was seeing. The results actually said “Positive!” Jesus! I am HIV Positive! Jesus! Her thoughts immediately shifted to […]
Hey you! Yes you. You want to be rich? Cutting corners and scheming in search of fast riches? Labouring all your life to save for retirement that may or may not come? You’re thinking too small. Think BIG! Think true wealth. Do not store up for yourself treasures […]
