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Editor’s Pick: How is my sex life any of your concern?

Somewhere in the world, there’s a forty year old man sleeping with a 17 year old girl.  Are you concerned?  What if I told you that he has been sleeping with her for the past 3 years?  Are you now concerned?  What if I said that she’s in fact his daughter?  Are you very concerned now?  Angry even?  Then, might I add that he also compels her to entertain his friends?  If you’re not outraged by now, you should really question your humanity, or at least get a mental health examination!

At different points in my portrayal, different sorts of people would have been concerned. You might find that your experience of sexuality numbed you of any emotion until the last piece was painted. However, you finally had cause for concern – Child Abuse and Exploitation!

Aside from our experience of sexuality, our knowledge, understanding, values and beliefs would have dictated at which point we were offended by this man. Is it any of our business who the average person sleeps with, if it is consensual and legitimate? Umm… It really does depend on your definition and understanding of consensual and legitimate.

A 17 year old girl could be sleeping with…

Read more at https://ufuomaee.blog/how-is-my-sex-life-any-of-your-concern/

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      • ,I’m fine.. Good morning Ma… I’m new to blogging and browsed thru blogs and yours came up…. You write so WOW… I just started blogging and made my first post yest but I’ve been seeing people’s work and wonder if I’ll ever be that good like them… Lol.. Don’t mind me and yes I’m heartbroken ND this blog is like a friend to me now and just discovered my ex just proposed to his gf .. Lol.. Sorry I’m pouring it all on you..i liked you too cos my urhobo name is ufuoma too..

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      • Oh wow, glad to meet my namesake 🙂 I’m sorry about the ex. I know it may not ease the pain, but you are better without living with someone who was never meant for you…and that’s the truth. Keep yourself for that one who sees your value and will want to put a ring on it 🙂

        I am sure your will get better at writing with experience. The best way is to let the Holy Spirit be your Teacher… You will improve in writing, as well as your understanding of His Word!

        I hope we will still connect. Stick around… There’s much to read, and please help me share as many as you love xoxo

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      • You’re welcome! I’m glad I can inspire and encourage you. Happy reading and blogging. Chat with me anytime. I am also om Facebook at web.facebook.com/ufuomaeedotcom.

        Have a great day!


  1. Great Post! I love how you write so honestly- I really resonated with this post and understood where you were coming from! Thanks so much for sharing this post!

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