Hi everyone! My name is Ope, and I am the husband of a sex addict. Six months ago, my wife, Promise, left me. Actually, it has been six months and eight long days. I feel my life has been at a standstill ever since. It’s not as though […]
By the time I concluded my account, my mother was in tears, thinking of all I had suffered at the hands of Tony and Uncle Bill. Kemi too was tearful. Both were short of words. My mother spoke first. “I will never forgive myself. SIX YEARS??? You mean, […]
I got home to find that things were not as I had imagined. They were much worse. When I got in sight of the bungalow, I saw my mother sitting out on the porch, looking despondent. She stood up when she saw me and squinted. She reached for […]
The bulky man eventually came and collapsed on me, almost suffocating me with his weight. I punched him with the little strength I had left, for him to get off me, wondering if he had suffered a heart attack. He finally arose and pulled on his boxers and trousers, […]
So I made my great escape, and Ope didn’t come after me, just like I knew he wouldn’t. It was not my proudest moment. But I was finally free, to live as I pleased. I didn’t tell Tony about the baby until the morning after, when I had […]
Hi everyone. My name is Ope. I am the husband of a sex addict. Last week, I spoke for the first time, after attending for three months. I was encouraged by a lot of your testimonies, as well as your feedback from sharing mine. I went home resolute and determined […]
I left my hour session with the counselor knowing I wouldn’t be going back. It seemed her counsel hinged on me believing in Jesus, and well…it just didn’t make that much sense to me. It felt good to talk it out, and get all that emotion off my chest, but […]
I remember the day I met Kevin, like it was yesterday. Something about him was so paralysing, I couldn’t help but stare! Yes, he was gorgeous, but more than that, he oozed charisma. He smiled at me, as he noticed my intense gaze, and I gasped. He took […]
1. And Abraham journeyed from thence toward the south country, and dwelled between Kadesh and Shur, and sojourned in Gerar. 2. And Abraham said of Sarah his wife, She is my sister: and Abimelech king of Gerar sent, and took Sarah. 3. But God came to Abimelech in […]
I was presented with a challenge by a reader, in response to my post Ufuomaee’s Seven Reasons To Wait, which was recently posted on The Naked Convos. They thought that, more than dos and don’ts, what’s needed is advice for singles struggling to stay chaste in a sex-crazed world. […]
I was asked this question by a reader, in response to my post Ufuomaee’s Seven Reasons To Wait, which was recently posted on The Naked Convos. I think my response might help others wondering the same thing. “Interesting write up.Some quick questions though… -Is this article addressed to […]
I have recently been approached by a few young ladies, who are engaged in a promiscuous lifestyle, and know the right thing to do, but feel that they are too weak to stop themselves. This has been quite disturbing for me, and I have been a bit stuck on […]
“Good morning Ma, i’ve been following your page, i need ur advice for a friend, My friend is in a relationship, she and the guy agreed not to have sex before marriage, but along the line they had foreplay and almost had sex, she’s still a virgin(technically). They’ve […]
“Pls ma. I was raped twice and i think this is affecting my self esteem. So now d thing is that i met a guy i so much loved but he want to have sex with me but i said no to him and he kept asking me […]
More than a week ago, I shared my counsel with a lady who was in love with a man, who had told her that he couldn’t move forward with the relationship if kissing was off the table. My counsel to her, based on my understanding, was that I […]
Grace and Truth 