Hi everyone. My name is Ope. I am the husband of a sex addict.
Last week, I spoke for the first time, after attending for three months. I was encouraged by a lot of your testimonies, as well as your feedback from sharing mine. I went home resolute and determined to keep fighting for my marriage. However, I got home to find that my wife, Promise, had packed out of our home.
I was heartbroken, but found the strength to go after her. I knew where she would be. I’d known about her affair with one of our neighbours for a while now. So his place was the first place I checked. And surely, she had packed three suitcases to move in with him.
There are no words to explain the agony I went through that night. My worst nightmare had come true. And I was afraid that it would happen again, that she would keep trying to leave me. However, I was determined to keep fighting, to keep defying her attempts to break me and make me hate her.
The day after I brought my wife back home, we found out that she is pregnant, and the baby can’t possibly be mine…
Read more at http://blog.ufuomaee.org/broken-part-five/