I was asked this question by a reader, in response to my post Ufuomaee’s Seven Reasons To Wait, which was recently posted on The Naked Convos. I think my response might help others wondering the same thing. “Interesting write up.Some quick questions though… -Is this article addressed to […]
I have recently been approached by a few young ladies, who are engaged in a promiscuous lifestyle, and know the right thing to do, but feel that they are too weak to stop themselves. This has been quite disturbing for me, and I have been a bit stuck on […]
“Good morning Ma, i’ve been following your page, i need ur advice for a friend, My friend is in a relationship, she and the guy agreed not to have sex before marriage, but along the line they had foreplay and almost had sex, she’s still a virgin(technically). They’ve […]
I just shared a comment on this post I read on The Naked Convos. I really connected with the writer’s perspective, and I think many single ladies have felt or feel the same way. I hope my comment will help you to exercise some wisdom in this matter. […]
“Good evening ma. I’ve read some of your write ups on LC. I must confess they are very good & helpful. Without much ado, I have a question to ask. I’m not in any “boyfriend – girlfriend” relationship because I don’t want to be for now but I […]
“Pls ma. I was raped twice and i think this is affecting my self esteem. So now d thing is that i met a guy i so much loved but he want to have sex with me but i said no to him and he kept asking me […]
“Dear Ufuomaee, Good day ma, ur blog blesses and inspires me so much, may God bless u. Please I need advice. I haven’t dated in such a while cos i didnt want to rush it like i rushed my first one. Then this dude comes along and in […]
“Dear Ufuomaee, I have a friend I really want to settle down with but he is a Catholic and I’m a Pentecostal. What can I do in this case, cos I don’t know if my parents will accept a Catholic.” Dear Reader, I am quite stuck on how to […]
“Dear Ufuomaee, Pls having a dream that your wedding gown is not fitting in i. e not my size is that a sign of letting go of the relationship.” Dear Reader, Dreams can mean many things or nothing at all. Sometimes, it is our own anxieties that plague […]
Everybody wants to be in love. Everybody. Even those who hide from the world, who seclude themselves and who have little patience for other humans. Yes, they too want someone to love them. Someone who thinks they are just awesome. Someone who lights up when they are around, […]
We can all do more to be more understanding of the other sex, and not let stereotypes and media hype corrupt our ability to discern our genuine feelings and needs…
At some point in your life, when you realise that time is passing you by, and you are yet to meet the one you’d like to share your life with, you might start to wonder what has gone wrong… I mean, isn’t there someone for everyone? And if […]
Ladies, ever had one of those relationships where you seem to be going crazy trying to figure him out? He says he loves you, but things just don’t add up in the way that he treats you. You might wonder if he actually hears you when you speak, […]
Grace and Truth 