The road to divorce was long and hard. I must have died a thousand deaths along the way. The first time was when he confessed to me what he had done. In tears, he told me his horrible secret and broke my heart. He destroyed my trust and […]
Since I started writing my story series, I’ve come across women going through so many challenges in their lives, and especially in their marriages. It has inspired me to write and to keep writing about marriage, and how to be stedfast in it, and how to work to […]
The hall was gloriously decorated with colourful, sweet-smelling flowers and alight with spotlighting and grandiose chandeliers. Gold and purple drapes and ribbons were beautifully spread around the grand space, and lined the ivory chiavari chairs according to the royal theme the Bride had chosen. It was to be the […]
I have modified this Reader’s account, because it was very detailed, but her main points are still captured. Dear Ufuomaee I am a 28yr old a graduate waiting for service,i mean Nysc. A single mum bt still living with my parent due to their love for me nd […]
Hey, did I get your attention with that title? It grabbed my attention too. It is written by a lady who I love to read from. She has a really sharp mind, and I love the way she tackles issues, only that, we usually end up on opposite […]
Dear Ufuomaee, “hello ma, this has been bothering me for sometimes now. It is kinda complicated. without making much fuss! I want to know if i really need to start a relationship on the basis of love,or I just needed to push n love will grow over time. […]
Dear Ufuomaee, Good evening ma’am. Trust you and yours are doing well. Your stories are really wonderful. I had no choice but to like your page after reading one of your stories. However, without trying to dictate the way you write your stories… I’d love if the sexual […]
Hi y’all! The Spotlight is back with a difference! I have really appreciated the break, and I needed it. I could do with more rest, but sooner or later, I have to get back to what I love to do and trust God to bless my perseverance. I […]
This post is a consolidation of a discussion I had with a friend on Facebook, after I shared this tweet on my timeline today: “Love is an #emotion before it is a #decision. #ItsnotThatComplicated…” The tweet was inspired by a discussion I had with two of my friends on […]
I was presented with a challenge by a reader, in response to my post Ufuomaee’s Seven Reasons To Wait, which was recently posted on The Naked Convos. They thought that, more than dos and don’ts, what’s needed is advice for singles struggling to stay chaste in a sex-crazed world. […]
My answer to this interesting question from a reader was short and sweet. But maybe you might have more insight to share. I think she would love the encouragement, and maybe other ladies facing the same challenge. “Good evening ma. you are doing a great job. more grace. […]
Hi Dear Readers, I hope you enjoyed the three posts I shared with you last week! If you missed them, you can click on the category The Spotlight, to read them all. This week’s posts deal with the major topic that is marriage! Today, I am sharing three unique […]
I was asked this question by a reader, in response to my post Ufuomaee’s Seven Reasons To Wait, which was recently posted on The Naked Convos. I think my response might help others wondering the same thing. “Interesting write up.Some quick questions though… -Is this article addressed to […]
I have been a born again Christian since February 2002, and it was shocking to me, when recently someone asked me about what they should do now that they are Christian…and I didn’t know how to answer them! Before, while I was with the Jesus Christians, my response […]
“Good morning Ma, i’ve been following your page, i need ur advice for a friend, My friend is in a relationship, she and the guy agreed not to have sex before marriage, but along the line they had foreplay and almost had sex, she’s still a virgin(technically). They’ve […]
Grace and Truth 