Dear Ufuomaee, Gd day ma. I av a questn a frnd of mine nd i were discussin abt a boy cheatin on his girlfrnd and he was like everyone has the tendency to cheat bt then i told him there is something called control bt pls ma how […]
Are you dating no one special? Please end that relationship now! Don’t you know that who you date could end up being who you marry? Do you really want to marry Mr or Mrs No One Special??? No, I don’t think you do. That’s not only boring but […]
The other day, as I was going to gather up those Christians to be killed, God appeared to me. “No, he didn’t! He doesn’t exist!” But I saw Him. He blinded me with His glory and told me I was persecuting Him! “Saul, you’re sounding crazy! No way […]
Hi y’all! Happy Saturday! I hope your day has been going well. You’re welcome to a new episode of The Spotlight. Last week, I featured a post by an Agnostic about God and David and David’s child by Bathesheba. An interesting discussion with the Authour followed. Do check […]
“Did you hear what happened to Uncle Bill?” Kemi asked, as she worked on my hair, adding pins to keep the style in place. I looked at her through the mirror in my bedroom. I’ve never been keen on gossip, but since he’s family…and we have history, I […]
“Hi Everyone! My name is Promise, and I am a former sex addict. Well, I wouldn’t have really described myself as a sex addict… I thought I was in control of my sexual behaviour and habits. But, it’s obvious I didn’t have as much control as I thought I […]
That night, I dreamt I returned home to Ope, and had prepared a speech to tell him how sorry I was for breaking his heart. But when I arrived at our home, another woman opened the door, and called to Ope, “Darling, there’s a woman here to see […]
Hi everyone! My name is Ope, and I am the husband of a sex addict. Six months ago, my wife, Promise, left me. Actually, it has been six months and eight long days. I feel my life has been at a standstill ever since. It’s not as though […]
Hey, good afternoon to you! And welcome to another episode of The Spotlight!!! I hope you enjoyed the last piece about why Christians should stop saying ‘God is in Control’. I would have loved to read your thoughts on the matter… In case you missed it, do check […]
By the time I concluded my account, my mother was in tears, thinking of all I had suffered at the hands of Tony and Uncle Bill. Kemi too was tearful. Both were short of words. My mother spoke first. “I will never forgive myself. SIX YEARS??? You mean, […]
Dear Ufuomaee, Hi I’m really confused here as to what to do.. I hav a bf who i’v been dating for like a year plus nw…I love him bt I dnt knw if I want to marry him. I met another guy recently who i’v fallen in love […]
I got home to find that things were not as I had imagined. They were much worse. When I got in sight of the bungalow, I saw my mother sitting out on the porch, looking despondent. She stood up when she saw me and squinted. She reached for […]
The bulky man eventually came and collapsed on me, almost suffocating me with his weight. I punched him with the little strength I had left, for him to get off me, wondering if he had suffered a heart attack. He finally arose and pulled on his boxers and trousers, […]
So I made my great escape, and Ope didn’t come after me, just like I knew he wouldn’t. It was not my proudest moment. But I was finally free, to live as I pleased. I didn’t tell Tony about the baby until the morning after, when I had […]
Hi everyone. My name is Ope. I am the husband of a sex addict. Last week, I spoke for the first time, after attending for three months. I was encouraged by a lot of your testimonies, as well as your feedback from sharing mine. I went home resolute and determined […]
Grace and Truth 