Hi everyone.  My name is Ope and I’m the husband of a sex addict.

I found out about these meetings from a friend of mine, who confirmed that spouses of sex addicts were allowed to attend.  I’ve been attending for three months now, and this is my first time sharing.  My wife, Promise, doesn’t know that I come here.  And I don’t know if she knows that I know that she’s cheating on me.

I have loved my wife from the very first moment I saw her.  I was drawn to her in a way I have never been to another woman, and I took my feelings to God in prayer.  I asked if she was the one, because I had never felt that way before, and I knew she was very promiscuous, and that was not something that I normally found attractive.  And also being a Christian, and knowing that we are not supposed to be yoked with unbelievers, I didn’t want to pursue a relationship.

I got an answer from God, through a dream, where He told me to care for her and to love her, and that He had a plan for us…

Read more at http://blog.ufuomaee.org/broken-part-two/