Ekem had this question to ask in response to my post: He’s not psychopathic, he just doesn’t love you.  The article was re-published on Lagos Convo, where she made her comment:

“What if this happens in marriage, what should the lady do?”

I think my response will help others who are probably going through this and wondering the same thing.

I wrote:

That’s a very good question Ekem. I have also wondered that myself.

As you know, I have quite a few stories to advice those who are married. Even the one we just concluded, An Emotional Affair… Lola was feeling like the girl in this narrative, who wasn’t getting attention from her husband. She was the one checking up on him, and she hardly saw him at all. She was lonely. But we were all able to see that she was not justified in accepting attention from another man.

The rules are different in marriage, that is why you mustn’t rush into it! You have to choose wisely, because it is for life…

Read more at https://ufuomaee.blog/what-if-my-husband-ignores-me/