Good afternoon ma’am.
I am sharing this with you because I know you’re a minister and a matured woman. I am 21 and I will be 22 in November but my breasts are not grown like a matured lady of my age. I started having protruding nipples at age 8 normally for a developing and growing lady but that’s where it stopped at the size of the nipples. I am in a university. My friends do make jest of me and laugh at me that I am deceiving brothers there was even a day one came to the bathroom and call others to come and see my small breasts and I am a final year student so the juniors also came. I have prayed and fasted about it before that at times in church it became my prayer points , I have laid my hands on my breasts whenever a minister says we should lay hand on any part that needs healing. I have prayed addressing the hormones concerned and the tissues of my breasts too. Now I rarely pray concerning who to marry because I don’t want to deceive men with the push up bras I wear. Today , my mates and I are gifting about relationships and sort but I could not really talk cause I feel I don’t have breasts so why should I. it’s embarrassing but I don’t know, I don’t even hear from God maybe God is telling me to wait or not. Please I am confused because even at times I use ladies that have big breasts as a point of contact and it’s still the same. I don’t want to deceive any man cause I have heard stories of female with small breasts and the husband got to know on the wedding night and I don’t want my case to be like that. Please what do I do?
I can relate with you a little, because I was very insecure about my breasts, before I married my husband. Guess what, he loves them!!!! What a waste of many years of insecurity, vanity and headache…