I’m getting married! To a wonderful, beautiful, Christian woman. Who would have thought, eh? We actually met on a plane, last August, when I came home for the Summer. When we first met, I couldn’t wait to leave her side. She’s one of those Evangelists! And now, I […]
In my previous post, I concluded my discussion by ending with an appeal for women to take the sacrificial route, rather than demand their right to their bodies and life in the abortion debate. However, I thought more on it and realised that the debate doesn’t end there. […]
The pressure is ON to loose your virginity like yesterday!!! Parents who might have otherwise counseled you, forbade you or restricted you from sexual involvement before marriage, are now encouraging you to use protection because they have given in to the belief that YOU WILL DO IT ANYWAY, […]
Somewhere in the world, there’s a forty year old man sleeping with a 17 year old girl. Are you concerned? What if I told you that he has been sleeping with her for the past 3 years? Are you now concerned? What if I said that she’s in […]
Hey, hey! Happy New Year! How are you??? It’s been a while since I wrote on The Spotlight or even an article on Grace and Truth. I’m going through some things, but mostly in a place of listening and growth with God. Will write as He inspires and […]
Ekem had this question to ask in response to my post: He’s not psychopathic, he just doesn’t love you. The article was re-published on Lagos Convo, where she made her comment: “What if this happens in marriage, what should the lady do?” I think my response will help […]
“Pls ma. I was raped twice and i think this is affecting my self esteem. So now d thing is that i met a guy i so much loved but he want to have sex with me but i said no to him and he kept asking me […]
“Good morning Ma, i’ve been following your page, i need ur advice for a friend, My friend is in a relationship, she and the guy agreed not to have sex before marriage, but along the line they had foreplay and almost had sex, she’s still a virgin(technically). They’ve […]
Dear Ufuomaee Hi ma,i just met dis guy on facebook he claims 2 luv me but he z very sexually active i told him i cant av sex outsyd marriage but he wudun av dat.i told him my fears and reasons and even told him my past but […]
Dear Ufuomaee, The other day I came with a burden about my fiance whether to accept his proposal. Anyway I did and we had our introduction last year December. He came for the list and since the day he collected the list he changed completely. He started complaining […]
Dear Ufuomaee, good morning. I’m an ardent reader of your write up on Lagos and naked convo. God bless you for the good works. Amen. I’m a young academic. I was not in a relationship for five years. why? university sweetheart broke my heart and got married. and […]
This conversation has been shared with permission from the Reader. I have tried to simplify our correspondence as much as possible, as it was a rather lengthy chat as I tried to get to the crux of the matter. I hope you are blessed as you read. Feel […]
“Good evening ma. I’ve read some of your write ups on LC. I must confess they are very good & helpful. Without much ado, I have a question to ask. I’m not in any “boyfriend – girlfriend” relationship because I don’t want to be for now but I […]
Dear Ufuomaee, Greeting’s ma, I have been following your blogs in two years now and you have really been of a great blessing to me ma but I need an advice. I will be 20yrs this year and I am a 400lv student of Uniben. I started out in […]
Christmas day had come, and Lola was past her due date. She was getting restless, as she had hoped to deliver before Christmas. Mama had come over as planned to help out before the baby arrived. She was a Godsend. Lola was able to put her feet up, […]
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