Dear Ufuomaee,

good morning. I’m an ardent reader of your write up on Lagos and naked convo. God bless you for the good works. Amen. I’m a young academic. I was not in a relationship for five years. why? university sweetheart broke my heart and got married. and the desire to focus on my carrier. meanwhile I was praying for a life partner all through the years. in September last year. a former university female friend and I started chatting. I’ve always liked her. we talked and talked. she was not in a relationship and so we gelled. it was all bliss all through last year. she informed her parents and I have met them. I haven’t changed towards her. but she has. she doesn’t call. pick my calls or acknowledge my missed calls. she is comfortable not hearing from me and she’ll assume iam fine etc. I have pointed her attention to it severally and yet no significant improvement. and this was a lady that was talking about marriage. she says her problems is not emotional but psychological. she is yet to get a job but she is managing somewhere. please advise me. I have asked for a breakup if that’s what she Wanted. she said no. she wants me. no other guy elsewhere too. she wants more time and wants me to be patient. I’m a Christian. I’m confused

Dear Reader,

You have quite a dilemma there. I like that she has admitted that she has a problem, and has identified it as psychological…

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