What follows is a transcript of a chat with one of my readers.  We started addressing the issue in question, but it turned out that the real issue was more pertinent, and I think you will be blessed to read.  She has given me permission to share.  Thanks for reading, and I look forward to your comments too.

Reader: Good evening

Ufuomaee: Hi, good evening

Reader: I want to talk to you but I don’t know if you will be chanced tonight

Ufuomaee: What’s up?

Reader: I’m fine.  Ok there is this guy he used to be my friend but suddenly he started talking about marriage at first I disposed it but now it has become real o he said he wants us to go on a date so that we can discuss things.  My problem is now that what are the questions I will ask him I don’t even know what to do now?

Ufuomaee: How do you know him?

Reader: Uhn I knew him through a friend and weve been close friends for 2years now

Ufuomaee: Do you fancy him? Find him attractive?

Reader: I have always friendzoned him he noticed it cos he mentioned it one time like that…

Read more at https://ufuomaee.blog/reader-questions-what-sorts-of-questions-should-i-ask-him