This post has been a long time coming, but I figured…better late than never. When I got the lesson for this article, I knew it was something worth sharing and remembering, and I am hoping that I’m still able to articulate the point. I know that it has really helped me to remember the lesson, whenever I find myself getting worked up over nothing.

We probably don’t realise how much we are controlled by the media, or how many beliefs we ‘hold’ that we don’t really ‘possess’. There are many things we do because we think that is what we are supposed to do, and that it is the normal way. It can be really scary when you realise that the person you’ve become is someone you really don’t recognise, because you are thinking and doing things that you really don’t want to do or think.

It dawned on me one day when I went to the bathroom, and found that my boyfriend (at the time – now husband) had left the toilet seat up, even though I’d told him repeatedly that he was supposed to bring it back down again after using it. I found myself getting irritated…

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