Hey, good afternoon to you! And welcome to another episode of The Spotlight!!! I hope you enjoyed the last piece about why Christians should stop saying ‘God is in Control’. I would have loved to read your thoughts on the matter… In case you missed it, do check […]
NOW AVAILABLE TO DOWNLOAD AS AN EBOOK! In just FIVE days, I will be celebrating the first anniversary of my popular story series, An Emotional Affair, by publishing the Audio Version!!! This is a fantastic resource for those who are not big on reading, but prefer to be […]
By the time I concluded my account, my mother was in tears, thinking of all I had suffered at the hands of Tony and Uncle Bill. Kemi too was tearful. Both were short of words. My mother spoke first. “I will never forgive myself. SIX YEARS??? You mean, […]
Dear Ufuomaee, Hi I’m really confused here as to what to do.. I hav a bf who i’v been dating for like a year plus nw…I love him bt I dnt knw if I want to marry him. I met another guy recently who i’v fallen in love […]
I got home to find that things were not as I had imagined. They were much worse. When I got in sight of the bungalow, I saw my mother sitting out on the porch, looking despondent. She stood up when she saw me and squinted. She reached for […]
The bulky man eventually came and collapsed on me, almost suffocating me with his weight. I punched him with the little strength I had left, for him to get off me, wondering if he had suffered a heart attack. He finally arose and pulled on his boxers and trousers, […]
So I made my great escape, and Ope didn’t come after me, just like I knew he wouldn’t. It was not my proudest moment. But I was finally free, to live as I pleased. I didn’t tell Tony about the baby until the morning after, when I had […]
Hi everyone. My name is Ope. I am the husband of a sex addict. Last week, I spoke for the first time, after attending for three months. I was encouraged by a lot of your testimonies, as well as your feedback from sharing mine. I went home resolute and determined […]
With the dawning of the morning, came the realisation that I was pregnant. I know. Life’s a bitch, isn’t it? And of course, we both knew that the baby wasn’t his, seeing as we hadn’t had sex in over four months! What a way to complicate things. And […]
I left my hour session with the counselor knowing I wouldn’t be going back. It seemed her counsel hinged on me believing in Jesus, and well…it just didn’t make that much sense to me. It felt good to talk it out, and get all that emotion off my chest, but […]
Today’s episode is a spotlight on Christianity and God, and who is really in control of what happens in our lives and our world. There seems to be a general consensus among Christians that God is ultimately in control, while we must take responsibility for our own actions and inactions. While it seems most people agree with this in theory, their practice mostly suggest that they think God holds all the cards…and when bad stuff happens, it is God’s will….
Hi everyone. My name is Ope and I’m the husband of a sex addict. I found out about these meetings from a friend of mine, who confirmed that spouses of sex addicts were allowed to attend. I’ve been attending for three months now, and this is my first time […]
That is the number of posts I have in drafts right this minute! I looked at that number and I thought “WOW!!!” So many things I would love to write about, so much inspiration and, yet, so little time… Nine of them are space savers for new story series! […]
Dear Ufuomaee, Good morning ma, hope you’re good. Please I would like to ask you a question. I met a guy during my service year who I was just plainly friends with. Along the line, I discovered I had developed feelings for him. Somewhere along sha, I told […]
Who am I? How do I even begin to answer that question? In all honesty, I don’t know who I am, I’m still finding out. I’ve stopped being shocked at what I am capable of, and decided that I’m going to be true to my real self, and […]